he “His” and “Her” sections of a closet ( or His/His or Hers/Hers) come up frequently in a design consultation. Honestly, it’s often a 2/3 Her and 1/3 His division.
But once you get past that, what about getting a handle on all the items you’re hoping to store in this shared walk in closet?
Here are some ideas for creating harmonious space (and maybe even a better love connection).
If you’re a husband and wife ensemble, you need to go through your “ensembles” together.
Your colorful fashion doesn’t always allow enough space or access for his fundamental function. So, try on the clothing in question and get that second opinion. And be open. If your spouse hates the sorority/fraternity party shirt that looks like it came from the movie Flash Dance, you should toss it. Same goes for his version of that.
Here’s the upside of going down that path. It facilitates communication between the two of you. You can be honest with each other and avoid future arguments as you’re ready to walk out the door. It also might shed some new insights on what your partner thinks is “hot”. How cool could that be (or hot?)?
As for specifics, focus on one person at a time. Allow a certain number of veto votes for those items you just love so much you can’t dream of parting with them.
Also, put some “storage structure” into the closet. If you have a column of shelves for shoes and it allows a total of 24 pair until it’s maxed out, then you now have a set number of shoes that are allowed in the wardrobe. If you buy a new pair, an old one needs to go.
Also, if you have double hang rods, consider having the top rod be “his” and the bottom rod be “hers”. The taller the person, the easier it is for them to reach the upper rod.
And be respectful. Don’t just throw things on the floor that your partner has to step over when they enter the space. Either install some hooks somewhere or make it a point to either put things back on the hanger, folded back on a shelf or tossed into the laundry bin. The floor is no longer a choice!
By incorporating these strategies and putting in a few hours of time, you’ll not only save yourself a ton of time over the long haul, but you’ll likely improve your relationship. Sounds like a win/win!